I mentioned in the last post that one of the only things Leopold has every really destroyed was his sweater. I bought it for him because he doesn't have enough fur to be outside long in winter; I never thought I'd be the type of person to dress my dog in a sweater, but a girls got to do what a girls got to do to keep her dog warm. I decided to buy him a sock-monkey sweater because, well, he just looked so darn cute in it. It was a little pricey for my wallet, but cuteness triumphed.
And... then I accidentally left it down too low, went out for a bit, and returned home to find that Leopold had torn off all the "cute" parts of the sweater (ears, monkey face.... all gone). I was sad, and angry at myself for leaving the sweater down where Leopold could get at it. What a waste of money! I couldn't bring myself to throw the sweater out, so I decided to "fix" it.
I replaced the lost monkey ears with monster horns, and filled in the missing monkey face with a monkey skull.
The end result was a unique, punk sweater that passers-by get a kick out of. I think it suits Leopold's personality better, anyway. (He can be such a little punk!) :-)
One cute monkey sweater bit the dust.
One punk monkey sweater is born.
Leopold is usually pretty good about not ruining my (or his) stuff, but every dog has his day. and I've learned that living with dogs means that you've got to accept that sometimes stuff gets ruined because there is only so much you can do to prevent it from happening.
I'm happy that I was able to turn this particular ruined garment into something functional and funky.
This is a blog of my experiences with dogs -- as an owner and as someone who worked with them professionally. Hopefully what I've learned from my experiences will also help you with caring for your own dog.
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Sunday, June 23, 2013
The Woes of Leopold, a cautionary tale: One Dog's Fear of Inanimate Objects
This blog is about the trials, troubles, and triumphs I've had as a dog owner. Its about the things that I've learned work; and... the things that I've learned do not. This post, in particular, is the story of a hard-learned lesson on a bad way to train a puppy not to chew my stuff.
Leopold is the first dog I ever owned on my own. He was also the first puppy that I raised on my own. As a first time puppy-raiser, I was nervous about making sure I raised him right and spent much time researching how I should do one thing or another. One issue that I knew a lot of dog owners had problems with was chewing--and I wanted to nip that problem in the bud, before I ever lost any personal items that I would be very sad about losing.
So I looked online and I read books and I talked to people, and discovered a lot of suggestions for "training" a puppy not to chew on your stuff. Many methods involved scaring the puppy when it started mouthing something it shouldn't. "Fill a soda can with change and shake it when the puppy messes with the TV remote". Or "drop some books near the puppy (not on!) to startle it when it starts to chew on your favorite shoes" (I'm paraphrasing). Etc....
This made sense to me. If a dog associates putting its mouth on the TV remote with scary things, then its not going to want to put its mouth on the remote.
So this is the tactic I chose.
But then, when Leopold was about six months old, I came home from work one day and my roommate says "Laura, watch this". She grabs her gigantic stuffed penguin from her room and shows it to Leopold. Leopold's eyes go wide and dilated, he crouches low and backs into a corner, shaking from snout to tail... My roommate seemed amused. I was not.
That was the beginning of Leopold's fears. After that, he was afraid of ANY stuffed animal (except a few that he had had since day one). And then it was any large object that a person was carrying around--grocery bags, boxes, etc. And then large objects that were sitting on the ground. And then it was any inanimate object that moved, from wind or gravity or from a human touching it. Branches that blew in the wind. Manhole covers or any other metal thing imbedded in the street or sidewalk. Pillows, wet puddles, ice puddles, swaying trees, the ocean, cars, children’s scooters and toys, our awning, doors, trash cans, recycling bins, ski poles.
At one point Leopold was afraid of the ceiling. He would get low to the ground, continuously glancing up at the ceiling (especially when our housemate was walking around upstairs) and scurry around trying to get away from the scary thing. Unfortunately the ceiling was everywhere.
The list of things he was afraid of grew very long. It was concerning. The only thing he didn't seem to be afraid of was people and other animals. (At least I did a good job socializing him...).
And I didn't know how to reverse all his fears. I still don't. Currently, I just manage his fears. (But I'll save that for another post).
I was perplexed for a long time as to the cause of Leopold's fears. They really did get out of hand. But I've since come to the conclusion that it must have stemmed from the very beginning, when he was a puppy and I purposefully scared him away from my stuff (my inanimate objects) with other stuff (other inanimate objects).
That was probably the worst thing I ever did for Leopold. Its true, Leopold has destroyed very, very few of my personal items. He once chewed up his own sweater, but it was my fault for leaving the sweater low enough that he could get at it. And I've had a couple of pieces of paper torn up, but that's about it. He's very good about not touching things that aren't his. So I guess you could say the tactic was successful; but it came at such an awful price.
While I think that maybe Leopold was predisposed to having a bad reaction to the "training" method I used (all dogs are different), this experience has me determined to avoid using the scare tactic in the future.
Leopold is the first dog I ever owned on my own. He was also the first puppy that I raised on my own. As a first time puppy-raiser, I was nervous about making sure I raised him right and spent much time researching how I should do one thing or another. One issue that I knew a lot of dog owners had problems with was chewing--and I wanted to nip that problem in the bud, before I ever lost any personal items that I would be very sad about losing.
So I looked online and I read books and I talked to people, and discovered a lot of suggestions for "training" a puppy not to chew on your stuff. Many methods involved scaring the puppy when it started mouthing something it shouldn't. "Fill a soda can with change and shake it when the puppy messes with the TV remote". Or "drop some books near the puppy (not on!) to startle it when it starts to chew on your favorite shoes" (I'm paraphrasing). Etc....
This made sense to me. If a dog associates putting its mouth on the TV remote with scary things, then its not going to want to put its mouth on the remote.
So this is the tactic I chose.
But then, when Leopold was about six months old, I came home from work one day and my roommate says "Laura, watch this". She grabs her gigantic stuffed penguin from her room and shows it to Leopold. Leopold's eyes go wide and dilated, he crouches low and backs into a corner, shaking from snout to tail... My roommate seemed amused. I was not.
That was the beginning of Leopold's fears. After that, he was afraid of ANY stuffed animal (except a few that he had had since day one). And then it was any large object that a person was carrying around--grocery bags, boxes, etc. And then large objects that were sitting on the ground. And then it was any inanimate object that moved, from wind or gravity or from a human touching it. Branches that blew in the wind. Manhole covers or any other metal thing imbedded in the street or sidewalk. Pillows, wet puddles, ice puddles, swaying trees, the ocean, cars, children’s scooters and toys, our awning, doors, trash cans, recycling bins, ski poles.
At one point Leopold was afraid of the ceiling. He would get low to the ground, continuously glancing up at the ceiling (especially when our housemate was walking around upstairs) and scurry around trying to get away from the scary thing. Unfortunately the ceiling was everywhere.
The list of things he was afraid of grew very long. It was concerning. The only thing he didn't seem to be afraid of was people and other animals. (At least I did a good job socializing him...).
And I didn't know how to reverse all his fears. I still don't. Currently, I just manage his fears. (But I'll save that for another post).
I was perplexed for a long time as to the cause of Leopold's fears. They really did get out of hand. But I've since come to the conclusion that it must have stemmed from the very beginning, when he was a puppy and I purposefully scared him away from my stuff (my inanimate objects) with other stuff (other inanimate objects).
That was probably the worst thing I ever did for Leopold. Its true, Leopold has destroyed very, very few of my personal items. He once chewed up his own sweater, but it was my fault for leaving the sweater low enough that he could get at it. And I've had a couple of pieces of paper torn up, but that's about it. He's very good about not touching things that aren't his. So I guess you could say the tactic was successful; but it came at such an awful price.
While I think that maybe Leopold was predisposed to having a bad reaction to the "training" method I used (all dogs are different), this experience has me determined to avoid using the scare tactic in the future.